Dreams and desires come naturally to us human beings. all of us like to fantasize and crave to some sort of accomplishment. we are always yearning for something. each moment of our life is inadvertently dedicated to attain our goals set in mind. My personal experience has taught me that that fulfillment of small small whims and fancies of kids and teenagers may only help build up their character. during this time the strongest of ambition losses its sheen very quickly and unknowingly. So their unattended demands or demands fulfilled after imposing a long wait for their realization takes the real fun out of getting them. Now the interest that may have build into a life long passion fades away and some other thing comes to the mind. the wishes which are more fiscal in nature(like a video game, a guitar or laptop) can only be got through parents at this age. but there are other types of wishes too. the human need of Appreciation ,of good friends, of love, of support, of being heard are also to be realized . But its all upto Yourself this time .one has to make his own place for somebody to give to lend an ear to you. Emotional Stability can also be got if you fulfill your small wishes and value yourself .if u cant get your dream thousands of thoughts occupy your mind which otherwise would have been busy realizing our liking to its real worth . . . …. and while your are going for your BIG goal in life never forget the small little wishes along the path which give you huge amount of satisfaction an happiness.